Sarvapitra amavasya is the one of the most powerful day to let go of all sins and do this remedy to get blessings of Pitris and one of the best remedy is to do tarpan but, Let us understand what is Tarpan and how to do this?
Tarpan kriya usually involves taking gangajal or any river water in hand with black til while wearing a durva grass ring and saying final good bye to our ancestors but this is what actually happens that we help our ancestors to carry on their journey with the help of water so they can complete their journey by assuring them that we will fullfill all the task they were not able to complete in this life time and what happens with assurance is -the can carry over their journey worry free. Imagine when your mother is about to leave for 2 days,
She will remind you of several daily chores to be done and you keep reassuring her that don’t worry- I will take care of it. That I still remember you and will take care of your words.
When we do Tarpan we take responsibility of completing the unfinished task- Even if you don’t know mantras, Even if you are not aware of anything else still what you can do is- You can sit in a clean place in your house and do this mentally and let all the issues related to ancestors -to let go such as let me give you example- Rahu and
Ketu in your chart are really heavy as they represents your ancestors from Parental or Maternal side- see which one is in more trouble – even if you don’t know Jyotish still you can see family history on both ends and see the family pattern as you are the result of the two.
One of the powerful remedy was to plan the tree of a nakshatra in which Rahu is placed such as Rahu in Bharani to plant an amla tree but even if you are unbale to plant tree due to some reason – Do it mentally- plant a tree mentally. Think about your ancestors why they were worried ? What was the task they were not able to complete in their life time and how you can fullfill it, How you can bring them to peace?
Ketu is not only your maternal grandfather- It is your complete maternal family and same goes for Rahu as parental family. These two are the storage houses for Moon as called as satellite of Moon only.
Let me give you few examples as how this remedy has given peace to so many people in past.
A native had Ketu in cancer in 6th house and Moon in Libra.
Q- Has anyone in your family ancestors left house after fight and stayed somewhere else?
A Native said I will confirm and tell and few weeks back he returned with interesting story – one Maternal uncle left to stay with elderly women -who was already married to someone else. but after few years -women left with someone else and family never returned to talking terms with the uncle due to social boycott.
Q- Does your uncle wanted to comeback and family didn’t accepted? (Here is where it goes interesting – As taught in Happiness series when Moon is in 7th house specially with Venus Native is hungry for emotions and kind of blind to get in to relationships as Moon is in Libra here so same effect can be seen)
A Uncle never wanted to comeback but wanted to marry girl within close family and was badly beaten and chased away in family function due to which he did court case for property and property was never settled till now -there is a fight.
Q- How is your father?
A With angry voice- He lived with another women when i was 15 but also keep taking care of us but due to him and his second wife only my marriage got spoiled- I asked “Do you see several ends of story right now” – I think the light over his head must have glown by now.
He just holded his head by realizing that how one event of maternal family has came in his life to spoil his own marriage twice. (the guy had 2 marriages and both failed.)
Q what should i do to correct it now?
A. Pacify Ketu- first of all, Let go of the grudge against if anyone has gone out of the norms decided by society – as that is how Rahu and Ketu suppose to behave – Your wife also must have said something to you which was unacceptable for you.
Yes as one of them wanted celibate in marriage as one of them was from belarus and wanted spritual path to be followed and second one -I caught cheating with my guru. (Both Marriage has issues related to Libra again)
Now realize why Ketu is behaving in a certain manner in your chart- Have you ever been a back bencher- you know when teacher says – “No one can cheat in my class” backbenchers take this as a challenge.
People with prominent Rahu ketu- are like- ” Hold my Beer, Let me show you how this is done”
So we tried this remedy on zoom by ask him to let go grudes and complaints against maternal family for property, father for not living with him and interfering in his marriage, forgiving spouse for doing their own karma.
You can do this by holding a flower, a tree branch, a fruit or any thing as a peace offering in your hand and say- I forgive you all from heart as by keeping grudges you hurt yourself most. you might feel like crying while doing this as this is completely ok as all this pain of leaving someone was inside there and you were trying to be ok with that much pain and grudge inside you. You should never feel guilt for someone else karma, There will be lot of people in our life who will come and leave and this is because -everyone has different stops in life where they need to get off.
Gift away fruit, wheat flour, milk, sugar or anything you feel like offering to complete this task.
One of the best remedy of Ketu is to say “Aham Brahmasmi” Several times in a day and it does wonders to your soul.
so as a result of remedy -In 6 months time native came back with big thank you as a result of leaving a grude what happened with him was that in 6 months guy relaunched his business brand in which he was struggling, Got in to relationship and moreover -he was happy from inside out as he had vision- Always remember the problem with Rahu Ketu axis is the Vision Person don’t know what to do.
You can do this remedy tomorrow of letting go of grudes, promising your ancestors so they can complete the journey – I promise you it will take only a day to see the change in your own energy.