Whenever I go out and prescribe remedy on various platforms there are always question and apology that I wanted to do this remedy but some mistake happened- Have I done it right or Devi’s will ask- I got my periods while performing a 43-day remedy – and after that, there was no mahurat – I am so a unlucky or I wanted to do akand Diya for Devi for 9 days but somehow by mistake Diya went off while adjusting it.
In the youtube comments section, there will be several of these comments and I can understand that every one of us wants the best out in life that is why we want to perform remedies with utmost dedication and if there is a slight mistake -we are worried and start getting a lot of guilt but not only on these matters even for waking up late, eating our favourite food, waking up late night, skipping pooja for 1 day- everything will take us for the guilt trip.
This is one of the habits which has been installed in all of us by our parents, teachers from the very beginning of being sorry for the matters for which we should not be sorry.
Let us take remedies – When we try to perform remedies – There are remedies when there are specifics but even if you are not able to perform any remedy -never have any guilt about it as it might be best for you that planets have some other plan for you and that is supposed to be the way it should happen- Universe has a bigger plan for you rather than you doing a small remedy- A remedy helps you come small obstacles of life but universal sign helps you understand the game plan.
We as humans are in habit of getting everything perfect for us- Look at the mental graph on which we are operating -There are people who are preparing their kids for coding at the age of 8- One principle on which this particular company is operating is parent’s foolishness that by learning coding in early ages their kid will surpass everyone else and same is the case when we want to perform the remedy- We are not ready to accept that even though remedy was told- It is out bhagya that remedy will not be performed rightly but I should accept it as this is plan of universe for me, do not live in guilt.
In Navratri someone’s akand Diya got off due to a mistake but that does not mean Devi is going to curse you as you have placed a lot of efforts in placing a Diya and its preparations and mistake happen with anyone- Do not let this fear inside you in the name of religion as this is what will make you weak- Religion and knowledge liberates you and doesn’t create any more mental boundation for you. If you are following any path of the religion and it is making you feel bounded at such a small mistake -how it can liberate your soul?
King Dasratrh has 350 wives out of which we know only 4 and when rishi Vishwamitra pointed out that you are too busy with the women-only and before you let Ram walk on the same path -at least do something for us as in the city of Dharam- Dharam is not safe- I cannot practice my rituals without being harassed by devils like Marich.
King Dashrath was not guilty of spending time with queens as he said ” I am Survyavanshi King- I have the seed of Surya and I require many women to satisfy me” and in the same chapter King Dasrath has been described as “Dharam Dhurandhar” -The one who carries a load of Religion on his shoulders but he was well aware of his needs and during the same conversation -Isht Ram decided to be Man of one Woman only so that he can give time to his people.
If anyone who is trying to talk down upon you without understanding your point of view or angle should be confronted in the same manner as King Dasrath confronted Vishwamitra as no one else knows what we are going through and what we have been through in the past so before you make fun of anyone’s life -live the life they are living and the values they have been born and brought up with and then only you can understand their point of view- so be more acceptable for other people- Have some compassion rather than thinking from your point of view.
Ravan wanted to make sure Angad, Hanuman and Vibhishan should have guilt and he tried as well but see the replies every one of them gave-
To Angad he produced guilt that your father was my friend -Ram killed your father and you are here as a servant of Ram- to which Angad did confrontation and said if you can lift my feet -I will leave and which no one was able to this and when Ravan when to try- He jokingly said- go and touch the feet of Ram -you will be forgiven.
To Hanumanji- He made fun that now a monkey talks like a Brahmin to give me advice and gave complex about looks and that he is standing in front of Mahapandit Ravan to which Hanumanji Confronted- that I cleared sea to meet Sita and you Mahapandit Ravan was not able to cross a line drawn by an arrow and now talks about his bravery.
To Vibhishan – He said -how can you be born in my family -and Vibhishan left and Goswami ji wrote- “When bad time comes -good people get out of your life”
Starting from a young age we start programming our kids ” You mind your own business in school” and the result is slowly kid starts minding his own business without worrying much about other people- In the land of “Sarve bhavantu Sukhina”- we have programmed ourselves to think out us only -How can a selfish person who thinks about himself do any good in life? A beggar thinks about himself, not the kings. Later on when the same person leave parents alone then what is surprising about it? It is taught by parents only to think about themselves only- An old age home does not have space nowadays in this country.
Let us teach our kids- “Sarve bhavantu Suhkina” that anyone who exists- not only humans- but plants, animals and all those who are not visible from naked eyes- “yaksha, Gandhrav, Yakshini” everyone around us should be happy and contented. when a person starts doing good for the community- compassion comes to his heart and then we can understand everyone’s point of view.
You should never feel sorry for any life decision you have made or the life you are living but at the same time you cannot blame anyone else for your failures as well -Learn to take responsibility for both. At the end of life when it will be asked “Why you have not done anything great?” ” Were you the source of happiness or misery for a lot of people?” You will not be able to blame anyone else.
You can’t say due to my boss/parents/spouse- I was not able to help people and do something great in life
Guilt is what kills you inside and makes you anxious- and guilt for what for sleeping late- Some of the parents behave like it’s their moral responsibility to harass kids if they are up late, If they are watching phone rather than focusing on corrective action -their behaviour is moreover like PT teacher with a whistle in the mouth to only tell faults without even telling the rules.
If you think your kid is addicted to phone -If the answer is Yes then please tell me when was the last time you sat down with your kid and discuss the problems cell phone can give in a logical manner rather than just shouting from one end of the room – “Leave this phone or I will throw this away”. Your kid will behave in the same manner until and unless you sit down and explain the problem. even a 4 yr old kid is intelligent enough to understand if you talk to him and explain.
As when you create guilt in someone or by your own mentality if you are creating guilt – You are severly affecting immunity levels in kids- Do not programme yourslef for this guilt and everytime you have this guilt feeling ask your brain- What you have done wrong that you feel misreable- Is this guilt really necessary ?
In today’s time when everyone’s health is at stake and doctors are advising us on various ways to boost immunity. A person’s immunity is improved drastically when a human is not worried When a native does not get anxious about small matters and practice the habit of letting it go and make changes as they come in front of us.
One of the best ways to improve immunity is by practising the habit of deep sleep- This one change in life can bring a drastic change in a person’s life- As when someone goes in a deep state of sleep- A lot of healing occurs -Read more about sleep in this article of Art of Sleeping.