Remedy & Mistakes

Whenever I go out and prescribe remedy on various platforms there are always question and apology that I wanted to do this remedy but some mistake happened- Have I done it right or Devi’s will ask- I got my periods while performing a 43-day remedy – and after that, there was no mahurat – I am so a unlucky or I wanted to do akand Diya for Devi for 9 days but somehow by mistake Diya went off while adjusting it.

In the youtube comments section, there will be several of these comments and I can understand that every one of us wants the best out in life that is why we want to perform remedies with utmost dedication and if there is a slight mistake -we are worried and start getting a lot of guilt but not only on these matters even for waking up late, eating our favourite food, waking up late night, skipping pooja for 1 day- everything will take us for the guilt trip.

This is one of the habits which has been installed in all of us by our parents, teachers from the very beginning of being sorry for the matters for which we should not be sorry.

Let us take remedies – When we try to perform remedies – There are remedies when there are specifics but even if you are not able to perform any remedy -never have any guilt about it as it might be best for you that planets have some other plan for you and that is supposed to be the way it should happen- Universe has a bigger plan for you rather than you doing a small remedy- A remedy helps you come small obstacles of life but universal sign helps you understand the game plan.

We as humans are in habit of getting everything perfect for us- Look at the mental graph on which we are operating -There are people who are preparing their kids for coding at the age of 8- One principle on which this particular company is operating is parent’s foolishness that by learning coding in early ages their kid will surpass everyone else and same is the case when we want to perform the remedy- We are not ready to accept that even though remedy was told- It is out bhagya that remedy will not be performed rightly but I should accept it as this is plan of universe for me, do not live in guilt.

In Navratri someone’s akand Diya got off due to a mistake but that does not mean Devi is going to curse you as you have placed a lot of efforts in placing a Diya and its preparations and mistake happen with anyone- Do not let this fear inside you in the name of religion as this is what will make you weak- Religion and knowledge liberates you and doesn’t create any more mental boundation for you. If you are following any path of the religion and it is making you feel bounded at such a small mistake -how it can liberate your soul?

King Dasratrh has 350 wives out of which we know only 4 and when rishi Vishwamitra pointed out that you are too busy with the women-only and before you let Ram walk on the same path -at least do something for us as in the city of Dharam- Dharam is not safe- I cannot practice my rituals without being harassed by devils like Marich.

King Dashrath was not guilty of spending time with queens as he said ” I am Survyavanshi King- I have the seed of Surya and I require many women to satisfy me” and in the same chapter King Dasrath has been described as “Dharam Dhurandhar” -The one who carries a load of Religion on his shoulders but he was well aware of his needs and during the same conversation -Isht Ram decided to be Man of one Woman only so that he can give time to his people.

Ram

If anyone who is trying to talk down upon you without understanding your point of view or angle should be confronted in the same manner as King Dasrath confronted Vishwamitra as no one else knows what we are going through and what we have been through in the past so before you make fun of anyone’s life -live the life they are living and the values they have been born and brought up with and then only you can understand their point of view- so be more acceptable for other people- Have some compassion rather than thinking from your point of view.

Ravan wanted to make sure Angad, Hanuman and Vibhishan should have guilt and he tried as well but see the replies every one of them gave-

To Angad he produced guilt that your father was my friend -Ram killed your father and you are here as a servant of Ram- to which Angad did confrontation and said if you can lift my feet -I will leave and which no one was able to this and when Ravan when to try- He jokingly said- go and touch the feet of Ram -you will be forgiven.

To Hanumanji- He made fun that now a monkey talks like a Brahmin to give me advice and gave complex about looks and that he is standing in front of Mahapandit Ravan to which Hanumanji Confronted- that I cleared sea to meet Sita and you Mahapandit Ravan was not able to cross a line drawn by an arrow and now talks about his bravery.

To Vibhishan – He said -how can you be born in my family -and Vibhishan left and Goswami ji wrote- “When bad time comes -good people get out of your life”

HanumanJi

Starting from a young age we start programming our kids ” You mind your own business in school” and the result is slowly kid starts minding his own business without worrying much about other people- In the land of “Sarve bhavantu Sukhina”- we have programmed ourselves to think out us only -How can a selfish person who thinks about himself do any good in life? A beggar thinks about himself, not the kings. Later on when the same person leave parents alone then what is surprising about it? It is taught by parents only to think about themselves only- An old age home does not have space nowadays in this country.

Let us teach our kids- “Sarve bhavantu Suhkina” that anyone who exists- not only humans- but plants, animals and all those who are not visible from naked eyes- “yaksha, Gandhrav, Yakshini” everyone around us should be happy and contented. when a person starts doing good for the community- compassion comes to his heart and then we can understand everyone’s point of view.

You should never feel sorry for any life decision you have made or the life you are living but at the same time you cannot blame anyone else for your failures as well -Learn to take responsibility for both. At the end of life when it will be asked “Why you have not done anything great?” ” Were you the source of happiness or misery for a lot of people?” You will not be able to blame anyone else.

You can’t say due to my boss/parents/spouse- I was not able to help people and do something great in life

Guilt is what kills you inside and makes you anxious- and guilt for what for sleeping late- Some of the parents behave like it’s their moral responsibility to harass kids if they are up late, If they are watching phone rather than focusing on corrective action -their behaviour is moreover like PT teacher with a whistle in the mouth to only tell faults without even telling the rules.

If you think your kid is addicted to phone -If the answer is Yes then please tell me when was the last time you sat down with your kid and discuss the problems cell phone can give in a logical manner rather than just shouting from one end of the room – “Leave this phone or I will throw this away”. Your kid will behave in the same manner until and unless you sit down and explain the problem. even a 4 yr old kid is intelligent enough to understand if you talk to him and explain.

As when you create guilt in someone or by your own mentality if you are creating guilt – You are severly affecting immunity levels in kids- Do not programme yourslef for this guilt and everytime you have this guilt feeling ask your brain- What you have done wrong that you feel misreable- Is this guilt really necessary ?

In today’s time when everyone’s health is at stake and doctors are advising us on various ways to boost immunity. A person’s immunity is improved drastically when a human is not worried When a native does not get anxious about small matters and practice the habit of letting it go and make changes as they come in front of us.

One of the best ways to improve immunity is by practising the habit of deep sleep- This one change in life can bring a drastic change in a person’s life- As when someone goes in a deep state of sleep- A lot of healing occurs -Read more about sleep in this article of Art of Sleeping.

    37 Comments

  1. mahendra narayan das
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    Adbhut Guruji..

    My sincerest regards to you..

    Happy Hindu new year..

  2. Nazia
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    Your article on remedy and mistakes brought tears to my eyes ! I always felt why is my life so unhappy when all I have done is good for others.my mom died with the only wish of seeing me married and itโ€™s divineโ€™s plan that I am still unmarried and was able to take care of my mom in her last days.the guilt kills me daily that her wish has reamined unfulfilled and I couldnโ€™t do anything !
    Universe has a greater plan and now I just go with the flow and take care of my 75 plus dad .
    Thank you sir ! You always enlighten people !

    • Hansa
      April 17, 2021
      Reply

      You are right universe has a greater plan. ITโ€™S great punya to takecare of family(father.. is sun, Mother.. is chandrama, kid.. Mercurry(listen them), worship, touch leg,.. Jupiter, Hardwork.
      saturn.(unkle) Courage.. Mangal. (Brother)Now keep yourself upto date(beauty) wear white, give to cow and blind, handicap for good Sukra.Do good relation with all your passed karma will turn off, and next your good time will bigin.

  3. Eva
    April 16, 2021
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    I am touched by the explanation of how can we bring compassion towards people. Most of the time, I feel guilty when I am not able to help people around me. I feel so anxious and I canโ€™t make decisions on my own. But I am slowly improving and like u said I am practising to let go things slowly. Thank you for your compassion towards us! Thank you for the stories of Ram and Ramayan. Every story is our own story. We are someway like Ravan and we should reflect on our actions.
    Thank you Deepanshu Ji๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

    • Avinash
      April 18, 2021
      Reply

      (Hinduism)Sanatan dharma has always been very inclusive,and as much as possible if we do follow the way of life,many doshas are automatically sorted out if there have been sins from past life.eg giving milk to dogs elevates planets mercury and Saturn,feeding various items to cow helps your mercury and Jupiter.

  4. Harish Singh Deode
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    Thank youโ€ฆ. Great article

  5. Neeru Singh
    April 16, 2021
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    What to say donโ€™t know but one thing is clear that I want to bow down in front of your parents who brought you up like a true human being .I wish people do understand what you are trying at your best.Hazaaron Naman ,๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

  6. April 16, 2021
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    This is so true, especially in a typical Indian family. I loved the way you mentioned how can we rectify this issue at the source itself. You made it so easy to understand like how to take a thoughtful action and explain the reasons for what we do and why we do certain things. This indeed shall increase awareness in children from a young age and help them understand better. Thank you sir!

  7. Aa
    April 16, 2021
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    I have always been pointed and pushed for not being a gods man, as i dont follow any niyam nor do i pray in any specific pattern. But my submission is that this is between me and my god and who is someone else know hos to please my god better than me.

    Dint do this, dont chant on bed, do do this you dont pray daily and me is like you do your own business and let me do mine.

  8. Aa
    April 16, 2021
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    I have always been pointed and pushed for not being a gods man, as i dont follow any niyam nor do i pray in any specific pattern. But my submission is that this is between me and my god and who is someone else know hos to please my god better than me.

    Dint do this, dont chant on bed, do do this you dont pray daily and me is like you do your own business and let me do mine.

  9. Biswa Asis Das
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    โค

  10. Ashimashri
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    Outstanding outstanding job

  11. Anu goel
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    Namaskar Sir. Awesome. Intent so powerfully delivered in simple way.

  12. E S Jagadeeshwar
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    Very nice article, Deepanshu ji. Those who are accustomed to donate on Purnima, amavasya, Ravi sankramana and auspicious days hurdles will be removed automatically.

    In one of your remedies, you told us to donate to sanitary workers on 12th, before Ugadi. I gifted some money but my friend unable to pay. He missed. On 12th I remitted some amount voluntarily to Sri Sharada Peetam, Sringeri towards Divya Saptati Purti Mahotsav , 71st Vardanti commenced on 13th They are going to complete Laksha Modaka Yagna for Ganesh, Ati Rudra Yagna, Ayutha Chandi Yagna and Koti Kumkumarchana for the welfare of humankind. This will be continued upto 27-4-2021. http://www.sringeri.net.

    On this 12th I gifted some sarees to our staff a servant maid. All these are unexpected.

    Cleaning of our karmas is a continuous process and will be continued life after life. So, if anyone is missed, need not worry and can continue. Next God will remove hurdles. What important is doing some remedy, instead of passing time.

    So, those missed the remedies, need not worry and can continue the same and learn to pray for all, for their happy future from the depth of your heart. Gradually, you will witness benefic results.

    Warm wishes to all of you and wish God bless us all to overcome pandemic times in a safe way.

  13. April 16, 2021
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    The best article ever.Loved the Dashrath part and Sree Ram part.
    Was thinking from long time to launch an educational psychology utbe to help the needful.somehow delayed,where I ve planned to discuss the above said things.wanted to make it in Hindi.donknw.letus see.
    Another plan is to write books on stories behind charts.that will happen.!

    Having zero guilts,sometimes bring deep thoughts โ€ฆ
    Well met Hanuman Ji before doing it! Thatโ€™s Rahuโ€™s imposed way of doing things, whether you like it or not!
    After effects are long termโ€ฆsad!
    But some knots definitely opens when we trust our intuition.
    This is the best article..you are really growing sir!No one can stop you!

    Feeling like listening to Rahu ,just after he had the divine nectar! Thatโ€™s giving u a place in ๐Ÿ’œ too.

    Blessed to have good sleep.wishing you peace.

  14. April 16, 2021
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    The best article ever.Loved the Dashrath part and Sree Ram part.
    Was thinking from long time to launch an educational psychology utbe to help the needful.somehow delayed,where I ve planned to discuss the above said things.wanted to make it in Hindi.donknw.letus see.
    Another plan is to write books on stories behind charts.that will happen.!

    Having zero guilts,sometimes bring deep thoughts …
    Well met Hanuman Ji before doing it! That’s Rahu’s imposed way of doing things, whether you like it or not!
    After effects are long term…sad!
    But some knots definitely opens when we trust our intuition.
    This is the best article..you are really growing sir!No one can stop you!

    Feeling like listening to Rahu ,just after he had the divine nectar! That’s giving u a place in ๐Ÿ’œ too.

    Blessed to have good sleep.wishing you peace.

  15. ANULEKHA BARMAN
    April 16, 2021
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    May you get the power,intuition to heal many more silent sufferers who have forgotten to frame the question that bring misery to them inorder to seek help. I was LOST in guilt which made me weak.I have no immunity,I forgot to dream,i lost appetite . I am GRATEFUL to you Sir for sharing the stories of how Hanuman ji ,Angad, Vibhishan handled cunning RAVAN. YOU GAVE ME BREATH . May you protect innumerable souls.
    May LORD Shri RAM heal you.Pranam.

  16. Vaishnavi M
    April 16, 2021
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    Deepanshu sir, thank you so much for this article ๐Ÿ’—. It feels as though you have saved my life. Thank you sir. I have been feeling guilty for every small thing all my life, but article feels like releasing all that stresss

  17. BALAJI PANCHBHAI
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    THANK YOU FOR THIS ARTICAL

  18. Soumi
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    Thank you for this wonderful post. Please keep on writing more blogs. Itโ€™s like a food for soul. I canโ€™t connect with Hindu scriptures but I search for writings related to spirituality.

  19. Soumi
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    Thank you for this wonderful post. Please keep on writing more blogs. It’s like a food for soul. I can’t connect with Hindu scriptures but I search for writings related to spirituality.

  20. Rosy
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    These words goes straight to my heart. Actually this happens parents dont have time for theirs every kids.

    In my case we are 3 sisters & 1brother. My parent love only our elder sister who is working. She has her own family but directly/indirectly she doesnt want us to get married or do something for us. She send her kids if we dont care, she make sure that parent scold/abuse me and my younger sister. Parent scold/abuse us so much that they dont even spend a penny on us. Hume roti tak ni dete apna aata sabzi khud banai khao eske alawa kuch ni milega.

    Right now I am 38 unmarried, no job,no friends nobody help us. Parent dont even talk to us. Elder sister use us for her kids. I dont know what to do..??? Dad told relatives that i dont want ro marry. Relatives too scold us but i never utter a word what we are going through. They are lying.

    Yes there is guilt inside what I have done wrong if I ask please see us also. Today i dont have courage to talk to anybody. I sit alone in my room, surfing internet. Phone is my friend. Dont even get proper sleep.

  21. Milinda Vashishth Rao
    April 16, 2021
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    Just “vow” is the word .. where everything is right or wrong .. one should be in ease with after efforts and sensible decision.. respect nature, universe plan. .
    Gratitude.. ๐Ÿ™

    My now 5 yr old daughter has troubled me for food is like hell .. she was always underweight.. i felt so much guilt about this .. but i put all my energy in making her weight appropriate that too without much junk food .. this year i achieved that when i made myself at ease with it and concentrated on my own mental health too .. now, i am leaving on universe..

    • Hansa
      April 17, 2021
      Reply

      Any one is hungry it’s due to fire in stomach, so change diet, give banana, patato,it cool fire and give energy, you go out side with her in sport, dance class, karate, swiming, or temple, so your kid automatically Change their
      life.

  22. Swagata
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    Very beautiful ๐Ÿ’•
    I wish you come frequently with more articles.

  23. Vidhi Bisht
    April 16, 2021
    Reply

    Sir mere bete ne to essay likh diya abt I’ll effects of mobile but uspe majal hai koi asar pada ho ๐Ÿฅด

  24. Varsha
    April 17, 2021
    Reply

    Deepanshuji,

    This is truly a wonderful post- the best till now. So appreciative of your deep understanding of human psychology and your sincere outpouring of compassion for people. We unnecessary blame ourselves for all the little so called โ€˜mistakesโ€™ we make and we then go into fatalistic mode.
    Itโ€™s so true that the right remedy will happen if itโ€™s meant to happen and perhaps there is a bigger plan if it does not happen.
    Again, thanks so much for your enlightening post!

  25. Nilima
    April 17, 2021
    Reply

    Waooo….. Adbhut.. bahot he lajwab .. Bahot he khoobsurat topic..๐Ÿ‘Œ
    Specially the cell phone paragraph…
    Bahot sara shukriya sir ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜Š
    Aap mano ya na mano sir You have some divine energy .. Sachmuch…!!!
    ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™
    O nice again thank you so much… Wishing you good health n happiness.. with loads of respect n love ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜Š

  26. Absolute god
    April 17, 2021
    Reply

    Beautiful thoughts.

  27. Amit Kumar
    April 17, 2021
    Reply

    Great sir

  28. bhavya chauhan
    April 17, 2021
    Reply

    Such a relaxing blog This make me guilt free . feels all is well.

  29. JC
    April 17, 2021
    Reply

    Beautiful post!!!

    It is requested that please make a video on the right way of living, especially for those in metro cities & those abroad, as suggested by our shastras. People have lost the sense of it & are living a purposeless mechanical life.

    India was the land of seekers & had a rich culture, however its kind of fading away with superstitious practices and dogmas (with no offence to anyone).

    You have mentioned in few of your posts to love yourself & be acceptable like Lord Rama and Lord Krishna. Despite the fact, people try to follow these idols, most of the time they come back to their original self with feelings of dislike, jealousy, anger, loneliness, arrogance, criticism and anxiety.
    Such feelings take over feelings of love, care, being considerate about others feelings, respect, being happy in others happiness.

    Kindly suggest few changes we can make in our daily life, considering the busy schedule of most of the family members (all are working 6 days a week from 7-9) which can make people more considerate and accepting towards others and loving towards oneself.

    You also mentioned about Deviโ€™s (the word I absolutely adore) should not practice remedies during certain days of the month. Deviโ€™s are not welcomed to enter temples during those days, which is a subject of great debate. Could you please enlighten us that as per shastras and vedas what was the reason for doing so & how relevant it is in todayโ€™s time.

    Currently it is seen that there are lot of failed marriages. Dev(s)and Devi(s) are in relationship for years but still file for divorce after few months of marriage. Those who canโ€™t file for divorce due to societal pressure, have interests outside. Therefore, what should be right approach to choose life partner? Mostly people are choosing based on the partnerโ€™s physical appearance, income, family status and education. Is it right to consider these parameters only or one should look for other things as well, if yes what are those? The conditioning done to us over the years by society and our dear ones, can be done away with?

    All in all people are suffering and not everyone can have learned beings to guide them all the time. Please advice simple yet effective ways to take people back to their roots again, so that they suffer lesser and can start believing in our culture & itโ€™s practices without a doubt.

  30. Sai prabhakar
    April 17, 2021
    Reply

    As usual great words….you are not writing with your pen but the GOD in the form of your consciousness is revealing the secrets for the betterment of humanity….

  31. Renuka
    April 17, 2021
    Reply

    Beautifully said โ€ฆgreat Sir

  32. Meenakshi Vasisht
    April 18, 2021
    Reply

    An excellent article Sir have downloaded two pics and am using the same.
    Sir am too abrupt and too curt in my speech please guide if possible how to change this ๐Ÿ™

  33. E S Jagadeeshwar
    April 19, 2021
    Reply

    I have seen the comments of those who are suffering a lot. Each and every seeker of God may not have true Guru or really enlightened Guru, for them it is a dilemma, whom I have to select as Guru. Secondly those whose Jupiter is weak or associated with malefic planets or in dustanas or giving negative result or who are having depressive moods are suggested to participate in Sri Shankaracharya Japa Yajna being promoted by Sri Sharada peetam, Sringeri. Make efforts to strengthen your Jupiter.

    You have to follow the guidelines suggested by them. The details of sthotra and mantra are given in the pdf format in Sanskrit, Kannada, Telugu, Malayalam, Tamil, English. Those who are interested to participate may visit for more details :
    http://www.sringeri.net

    By participating in such programmes you will have blessings of God and Gurus. Their blessings will root out your unknown bad karmas also. Millions and millions are suffering in various ways. Corona virus is changing our lives. Many are dying.

    Why we have to suffer for a long time? Why can’t we overcome them? Those who want to follow Sanatana dharma are suggested to think about the above programme.

    Another issue is if you are interested, you can remit the prescribed amount to their arjita sevas or saswatha pujas from time to time also. By participating in such spiritual activities our badkarmas, blocks, hurdles, negative effects of navagrahas, mahadasa, vidashas etc will be removed because they are performing those Yajnas for Loka Kalyana in which all of us are included.

    Those who love Sanatana dharma are suggested to think, promote, share the info with others. Pray for all Beings. New doors will be opened in our lives. Then we can understand what Deepanshu ji wants to convey.

    During these pandemic, uncertain times we must conquer fear and have to lead peaceful lives. The choice is yours only i.e. whether you have to suffer or want get rid off those sufferings is in your hands only.

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